Viability

I consider this week a major milestone for little Samuel. It is week 24 and is the first week in the pregnancy for “viability” as my OB points out, meaning it is the earliest recorded week a baby can be born and actually live outside the womb! Of course, this possibility more than likely applies to normal, healthy babies. It is still reassuring to know this fact just in case I was to go into preterm labor at any point.

I also believe because of this “viability” factor, it is probably the same reason why most states will not allow abortions after week 24. I didn’t know this time table until recently (week 18 when Samuel was diagnosed). The doctors have made Dan and I very much aware, and several times. Initially, we felt they were pushing us in that direction, but the moment we took the firm stance and said there is no possibility, they all eased up. My OB has even asked me if I chose a name. When I told her it was Samuel she said it she loved it and it was absolutely perfect. She has referred to him on several occasions as my “dear sweet boy”. I sense she does have compassion in her heart for our situation and I do feel much more comfortable now talking to her.

Dan and I decided our next steps are to determine the hospital we will deliver. We have a set of questions and scenarios we want to run by our OB then make the decision. We also want to speak to a neonatologist about some of Samuel’s complications, namely the major one so far found- his meningomyelocele or neural tube defect located around his sacrum / lower portion of his spinal cord.

On a separate and happy note, Dan was finally able to feel Samuel kick for the first time! It took place sometime last week. He was so happy to finally have the opportunity to feel our baby’s movements. The frequency of little Samuel’s movements have been still erratic and a lot of them are still very soft. But I have no doubt that as he grows bigger, his dad will have many more opportunities!